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2008/09/22

LISTEN is an ART~~!!!!~~~

In my Interpersonal Communication class, the most importance in the beginning is how 2 be listening~sometimes when u friends tell u sth. it doesnt mean that s/he must not understand what the situation is or what s/he should think &do. but s/he just want sb to listen to that instead of giving any suggestions so that s/he can believe sone understand s/he.

like today when i took the pics in the beach i show Shalom my photos i though is not bad. eventually he did think they r bad and he told me. all right, i think what he said is absolutely right~but i am just so upset. so i told promise that what i think about that~actually i did know what i should do. as the song said, sometimes u just need someone 2 listen and let u feel understood even though s/he r so comfused. but she tried to teach me how 2 overcome and give some many suggestion that made me more mad.

so i am kind of understanding how i made her feel last time.(ps, am i the guy that lots of people think i can overcome any words. that would be so bad. actually i was so sad when i heard so many words even though i knew u r kidding~!~) i wont do that any more. all right. i am still angry now. so dont believe that. but i would try to change myself. one person especially when u r major in communication that u must know what r doing~

learn how to listen~LIISTEN is such an ART!!!

恋の心雨 发表于 2008-09-22 11:49  阅读(123) 评论( 1) 引用( 0) 新生日记
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